>>12Lemma 4.3.1:
I am capable of judging myself and holding myself accountable for my actions and being.
Some people that pass judgement on me may be doing it in my best interest. These people may be incorrect or correct in their judgements.
Others will judge while having no stake holding in my best interest.
Those that actually care about me will have the chance to communicate with me and convince me of their judgements.
If they convince me, I will agree with them, otherwise I will disagree.
If I disagree with them, I will not change due to their judgement.
In either case, I can trust myself to judge myself. If I agree with them, I just change my own judgement of myself.
If someone does not have my interest at heart, I can choose to disregard them, or listen to what they say, which I can then agree with or disagree with.
In all cases, only my judgement of myself is relevant. Those worthy of my consideration may attempt to convince me to change my judgement of myself. If others carry judgement of me that conflicts with my well founded judgement of myself, I do not need to bother with it. By ``worthy of consideration'' I don't mean that I'm too important, just that they aren't spam.