>>14I find them more stimulating and amenable to socialization
That just means you haven't found the right people to be around.
This is one of the problems with liberalism -- western hyper-individuality, social media bubbling, globalism, low-context culture, etc. It makes it harder to find like-minded people.
Once you find good company, your views on that will change completely. I used to dislike socialization until I made good friends who I actually like being around. Not all people are bad, but not all people are good either. And some people simply aren't compatible with one another.
Meet new people until you find a group you can fit in with. Collectivism is more important than westerners think. It has taken me a while to realize that being in a group doesn't mean you're a "sheep" or something. American special snowflake syndrome means it's hard to fit in with others, but once you find your group, your only regret will be that you didn't do it sooner in life.