I met this amazing guy about a year ago, we really hit it off and rapidly started becoming close friends. I've never met someone that I clicked with so well so naturally I started developing a crush on him. And eventually I fell for him. I'm female btw, and although I don't have that much romantic experience I know that this one is special. He found out twice that I had feelings for him and continued to stay friends with me even though he didn't like me back. And our relationship grew Now we are best friends and I feel lucky just to have that. I'm closer to him then I ever thought possible to feel for anyone. Still being in the friend zone sucks. The part that really makes it hard is he is about to transition to being a female. I am infinitely happy for him and that he is taking control of his life. But there is part of me that's crushed because if he does transition then my little bit of hope is squashed. I honestly believe he has romantic feelings for me back but I'm not a lesbian. Not even bi. And he has to do this for himself. So I think he is ignoring those feelings because it would never work. Something so wonderful is just barely in my reach but I'm just here alone only able to look at it.
>>1 I can't tell if you're trolling, but here is an equivalent story. I met a woman who is totally inappropriate for me for a variety of reasons, including the fact that she has a boyfriend of many years. And I honestly couldn't tell you if I would hook up with her or not. We hold hands. We hug. Today she pressed her whole body against me, side to side. "Just joking" of course. She wants me and I want her and it'll never work out and we're adults, so we know that. She says she loves me, and then says she's joking. Her boyfriend is the nicest guy I know and infinitely better for her than I would be. So I'm just going to sacrifice what I could have with her so that she can have a good life. And that's my story.
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Anonymous2015-06-26 2:50
>>7 That is a sad story. I really wish there is some karma system somewhere and that good guys like you, unwilling to do any harm, get their share of happiness in the end.
I am pretty sure caring for the nice boyfriend's feeling is not how the game is meant to be played, though. Maybe that's why I found your story sad.