Name: Anonymous 2018-09-22 3:24
I'm not a virgin. I'm not a NEET. I have some friends. I've been in relationships before. But even so, I just feel so alone. I can't relate to people. My coworkers, "friends", and even family really only know me on a surface level. I've never felt like I've had a truly meaningful connection with anyone. Not even my exes.
Incels are idiots. They think getting laid means your life will be perfect. Sex is okay, but it's not enough on its own. I want to feel something more than lust for someone. I want a deep relationship with someone. I'm sick of talking about stupid shit like the weather, or work, or who's starting a family, or food, or beer. I want to have really meaningful conversations, not this watery small talk that means nothing and gets repeated time and time again. I want to find someone who is on the same wavelength as me. I'm not saying I'm better than everyone, just different and possibly incompatible.
Nobody really knows me or my thoughts. I have my real personality, which is private, and then my public personality, which is more of a facade that is intended to be more socially acceptable. It's hard to really open up to people.
Even when I'm at a bar with my friends, I feel alone. Even when I've been on dates or gotten laid, I feel alone. The people in my life aren't very compatible with me, we're just in the same location, so it's relatively easy to hang out or whatever. Friendships and relationships built on convenience and where we live. It means nothing.
Dating, social media, hanging out, bars, meeting new people -- it all seems so unfulfilling. I get my hopes up and I get let down over and over again. It just feels so hollow. Empty. Incomplete.
Can anyone relate?
Incels are idiots. They think getting laid means your life will be perfect. Sex is okay, but it's not enough on its own. I want to feel something more than lust for someone. I want a deep relationship with someone. I'm sick of talking about stupid shit like the weather, or work, or who's starting a family, or food, or beer. I want to have really meaningful conversations, not this watery small talk that means nothing and gets repeated time and time again. I want to find someone who is on the same wavelength as me. I'm not saying I'm better than everyone, just different and possibly incompatible.
Nobody really knows me or my thoughts. I have my real personality, which is private, and then my public personality, which is more of a facade that is intended to be more socially acceptable. It's hard to really open up to people.
Even when I'm at a bar with my friends, I feel alone. Even when I've been on dates or gotten laid, I feel alone. The people in my life aren't very compatible with me, we're just in the same location, so it's relatively easy to hang out or whatever. Friendships and relationships built on convenience and where we live. It means nothing.
Dating, social media, hanging out, bars, meeting new people -- it all seems so unfulfilling. I get my hopes up and I get let down over and over again. It just feels so hollow. Empty. Incomplete.
Can anyone relate?